F*** the tutters

This is an act of pure plagiarism The immortal phrase 'Fuck the Tutters' came from the genteel Lily Flower and I have blatantly stolen it
To be fair on the inoffensive blue rodent pictured above it is not an attack on squeaky-voiced tenants of 'The Big Blue House'

Nor is it a reference to the 'Urban Dictionary's interpretation of the word tutters:

Refers to a woman's breast; usually used in the text of looking at them.
"Wow, look at her tutters!"


No, I think anybody who has a special needs child (or indeed any child)know exactly who 'The Tutters' are They have infiltrated our society and are moving silently and not so silently among us!
Myself, I have only encountered silent tutters They Tut using just their eyes

Tutters can be any age- young, old and in-between any race, male or female and may even be related to you!
One thing these people all have in common is their their superiority... their parenting skills are faultless and their children paragons of good behavior Of course there are Tutters who are not parents but still deem it fitting to judge others



I was heartened recently by a recent post where a harassed mum was offered help while shopping in a store This is such a huge thing and if the Tutters would only realise that to help rather than judge would be altogether more gratefully received
Mums and Dads of special needs kids are not super-human and any assistance is greatly appreciated
At times of stress we, nor our children need to be judged or frowned upon There are a lot of people who need to be educated out there but in the meantime do as a wise woman once said: 'Fuck the Tutters'